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I saw your post about you having dental work done, my boyfriend patrick needs all of his teeth pulled out, but last week he started to get like an abscess on top of his gums in the front of his 3 teeth, he went to the ER cause he was in so much pain, but they didn't do anything for him, they just told him to go see a dentist asap. Well he went to aspen dental and they did xrays and looked at his teeth, and they wouldn't do anything because they wanted him to open up a medical line of credit, and we don't have the money to do that, so it was going to cost like $5000.00 to get his teeth done, and we have the access plus for right now, but for some reason they cut the pharmacy and dental part of it, for which reason, i have no idea, and he just started a job, and his insurance isn't going to kick in for awhile, and he is in alot of pain, constantly popping ibuprofen 800's and i wanted to ask you if you had any suggestions?
I have been reading through your posts and pages and i just want to let you know that you are in my prayers and i hope things get better for you, because you definately deserve it, your heart is very full and open and im so glad that there really is people out there that are here to listen and have problems of their own and take the time out of their problems just to help others. I was wondering how it is going with the insurance thing? i dont understand how you can't qualify for medicaid? iv'e had some problems with access myself, they took it away from me, and i am on medications that i really need and are SOO EXPENSIVE and i can't be without them, so ive been trying to call my caseworker, but they never answer or get back to you. Some people have told me to ask the wellfare office too about helping with getting me a car, but when i did ask them, they didn't know what i was talking about. Do you have any suggestions on what i could do? im on that website for freecharitycars.org, but im not sure how many votes you have to get to become eligible for assistance. Please take your time with getting back to me, and thank you for your time!
God Bless <3
Well its been a little since i have been on the site and was actually able to sit down quick and type up something because my daughter has been keeping me busy non-stop. I got into a little apartment that is in subsidized housing, and have been on any kind of assistance i can get. Well my boyfriend decided to move in with us and we were living at the apartment for 6 months and my landlord didnt put him on the lease, just to cut us a break because she knew that we just had a baby, well the time came to when she had to put him on the lease and he was receiving unemployment at the time, and DIDN'T tell me how much he was even bringing in, i knew nothing about his financial status, but he knew every nickel and dime i spent, but anyways, my landlord was the one that had to tell me how much he was making and that our rent was going to go up to $230 a month, and i started to freak, because i didn't have a job either, well then they took away my cash assistance i was getting twice a month to buy the baby like diapers and wipes and formula, all because of him receiving this unemployment, that i had no idea about, so it really made me look like an ass infront of my landlord and the wellfare office..anyways..so i set myself some goals to try to and get a job, and patrick did as well, he ended up finally getting a job at a factory that is only about 15mins from home, and he is working 2nd shift, from 4pm to 2:30am..and lets just say i knew that as soon as he started working, he wasnt going to wana help me at ALL with peyton...but then i ended up getting a job offer also at a company that scans medical records for insurance purposes, well i was able to make it to my training all last week using his moms old vehichle, well it ended up breaking down on me in the middle of the intersection in state college, i was so embarrassed, and then i called my work to tell them i was right outside at the intersection and that the car had broken down, well they said it was considered a tardy..they werent sympathetic at all..so the next day i had a hard time finding a ride to work, but i was able to find one, i was just a little late, and i even called to let them know, well they weren't very nice about it..so the next day after, i got extra early in the morning to get ready for work, and made sure peyton was fed and had clean bottles until her dad would take her to his moms house..well he wouldn't get out of bed to sit with her so i could leave!! i kept going back in the room and telling him i had to leave for work, and he would just toss over, so i ended up not being able to make it to my job that day, all because he wouldn't get the hell up to sit with his daughter!! so lets just say im guessing i lost my job, the company hasnt even bothered to contact me or anything..but im trying like hell to save up some money for me and peyton, and try to get my OWN vehichle because i don't trust his family, i know his mother will take her car away from my use anytime she would want, so i got on a website called freecharitycars.org, and you create a profile and tell the world your story, and then you get votes, and if you get up to so many votes, you are eligible for car assistance, insurance, and even maybe a car, so if you could please go and vote for me and peyton on that site, my name is firsttimemom1 on there, we would appreciate it forever!! we need our own car!! Please keep us in our prayers, and if anyone hears of any job openings, especially medical jobs in the altoona/state college area, please let me know..thank you so much and god bless you all <3
Hello..i just read your post about having clothes or household items to donate to you for the thrift store thing and i would be very interested in helping you out, i have more than what i need and i am always up for giving..the only thing that i am trying to find out though is, is there some type of help out there that i can get to fix my car that is not road worthy at the moment? where do you live at?
Just checking in to see if anyone out there has ANY advice or direct me in the right direction to finding a car for cheap, i don't know if there are any type of organizations out there that help single mother's with transportation or not? I have a newborn and still have not been able to get a car yet, the baby has so many doctors appointments that i have to ask around to twenty million people if they could give me a ride to the doctors, and i always hear they can't right now..so if anyone out there knows what i could do, please write me back!!
Thank you so much
I suggest that you approach your landlord and just simply tell them your situation, a friend of mine just went through the same thing you are, and legally they are not allowed to be acting the way they are..see if they will let you negotiate and work something out until you get a job..how do you have an income now? I haven't been able to get a job for about 2 years now, i don't know what i am doing wrong..and i have a newborn baby and my boyfriend has been laid off, so we are kinda in the same boat you are..but that is my advice to you hun..
Im in my 9th month of pregnancy and i am due in 2 weeeks..im very excited but also very nervous and worried that i am not going to be able to provide my daughter with what she needs..my boyfriend and i finally got into our own place and everything was starting to fall into place until he got laid off from work, he was working for a cable company, laying fiberoptic cable, it was kind of a bullshit job, but it was an income..i haven't been able to find a job since i got pregnant and i am praying to God that i will be able to find one after the baby comes. What i am trying to get to is that i need help finding out some information on getting a vehicle.. I have to depend on my mom to take me to every single doctors appointments or whenever i need to go somewhere..i don't know if there is help out there to get a car or not, but i know when the baby comes that i am definately going to need some type of transportation for her appointments and my mom can't always take me to mine..if anyone out there knows who i could contact for help please write me back..i would greatly appreciate it!!! God Bless <3
Hello, i just wanted to tell you thank-you for writing me back on my post, i honestly couldn't figure out how to read any messages that were wrote back to me until now and i have been a member on this page for almost my whole pregnancy! So i sincerely apologize for not getting back to you right away..but i appreciate your advice that you gave me and just to fill you in on a little bit with what is going on..the baby is doing great, she is CONSTANTLY moving and kicking the heck out of me..iv'e gained a total of 16lbs my whole pregnancy..which isn't bad..but i wanted to tell you that i finally got my own place..it is in a HUD developement and they go off of your income, so i finally got out of that shitty environment that i was in prior to..and suprisingly my boyfriend stepped up and moved in with me and we are ready to be a family..i dont have to deal with his mother much anymore, the only thing she really has holding over our head is that patrick still uses her car because he is waiting to get some money to fix his car, so when he leaves during the week for work, he leaves the car here incase i have an ER but i rarely ever take it and his mom leaves me alone..i dont know how im going to be when the baby comes, i know it is his mother, but i really dont care to have her around our baby..could you really blame me? But i have been relying on my mother to take me to all of my appointments so she has been a GOD sent..but things are starting to fall into place thankfully..i went to the wellfare office the other day and applied for cash assistance just until i find a job and i just have to do these classes in order to receive the cash, but the classes are from 8:30am to 4:30pm 4 days a week, and i really dont want to depend on my mom to take me every single day, so im hoping patricks mother will let me take the car, because if i finish these classes not only will i be able to get the cash, but they also can give you up to $1200 for a car..and i really am going to need a car, especially when the baby gets here..but please keep in touch with me and if you ever wana talk on e-mail..mine is firstname.lastname@example.org. It's nice to talk with someone and have that type of relation ship so thank you from the bottom of my heart and please keep in touch
Just wanted to give everyone an update with the pregnancy. Everything is going great with the baby, i found out that i am having a little girl and i am going to name her Peyton Neveah. Right now im having a really hard time because im living in an apartment with my boyfriend, his mother, and his older brother, and things are just so uncomfortable and stressful for me that i literally come out and stay with my best friend Kirsten throughout the week until my boyfriend comes home on the weekends because he works out of town. I had to overhear his mother talking on the phone the other day saying that i am lazy and i won't go out and get a job and that i think everyone should wait on me hand and foot and that she isn't going to do that and doesn't care how sick i am with this pregnancy and that she doesn't care for me and this baby and just basically does not give a shit about me and does not like me. My boyfriend won't stick up for me because he says if he says something to her, then he is going to get kicked out and he doesn't have anywhere else to go.. My parents have been offering me to come home and help out with everything but i moved out for the fact that my dad has major control issues, and im really scared to take the chance and move home after the fact that iv'e been out on my own for almost 3 years. And my dad will be a prick and tell me that i can't have my boyfriend out to their house and i can't be away from him. I really don't know what to do, and we can't afford to get a place of our own, does anyone out there have any suggestions on what i can do? I only have another 3 months left to find a place and get ready for the baby, i really need help, i am an emotional wreck and need HELP!!! Please message me back..
Thank you so much,
Becky Levinson <3
I wanted to update this post since it was put on here awhile ago, i had my little girl, her name is Peyton and she is going to be 6 months already! I got into a subsidized housing thankfully the landlord was really trying to help me and she did. I am still in desperate need of transportation, when i moved, my boyfriend decided to tag along and lately honestly i don't want to even be with him, he has been so rude to me, and has not helped me at all with our daughter, i do everything at the apartment with cleaning to cooking and taking care of peyton 24/7..he just started a job at a factory that is like 15 mins away from our place, well he works from 4pm - 2:30am and ever since he started this job, he has been a complete jerk to me, and thinks that since he is working, that he doesn't have to help with the baby, well i need a break once in awhile, and thankfully my mom is willing to help me! I want to get everything situated so when the time comes that him and i end it, i can have a vehichle and find a job, and peyton and i can do it i know we can...but when i got in a fight with patrick the other day he told me that i couldn't make it without him..and calling me names and what not, well i want to prove him wrong! Im trying so hard to raise my daughter properly and i dont want there to be fighting around her either, so if anyone out there has any ideas on what i could do, id be sooo thankful, im already on freecharitycars.org, and i have checked out some sights for assistance for vehichles, but they do not participate in our area, i also had to recently try to get on bluechip insurance, because they cut my pharmacy and dental part of my access and didn't even tell me they were going to, and i am an x-drug addict, i have been clean for almost 3 years, and i have been on suboxones and that is the main medicine that i need and i cant afford it now because of them cutting the insurance..so like i said, im always on here trying to find advice and other sites that say for assistance, my rent is 229 a month because of patrick living here, i dont know how much it will be when he leaves, and he has my name in the cable bill and phone bill, and electric, which is fine, because im head of household, but whenever he is late with payments, he doesn't care, because its not on his name..i just dont know what to do, iv'e told him to get out, but he didn't...and he must of thought i wasn't serious..but i can't take it mentally anymore with him, i have to literally hide my money, my medicines, and my access card from him cause he gets into my purse all the time..im just tired of not being happy..and i hope that someday there will be someone out there that would make me truely happy..thank you for listening, and please let me know if you know of any assistance for vehichles in our area, which is blair...
God Bless You All!!
First time mommy <3